I am a 23-year-old guy. I recently had sex with one of my gay friends. We used protection. I enjoyed it and would like to try it again. I did it because I cannot control my sexual urges and I don’t seem to find a girl who’ll satisfy them. Is it okay to be bisexual? I don’t want to turn gay. Can I have sex with another boy? Please help me.

It is entirely up to you. You must do want you want to. Ask yourself about the consequences of your decision in future then decide. Do not expect me to hold your hand.

I am a 20-year-old man. I have a good physique and am not suffering from any disease. I masturbate three to four times a week. But a few months ago, I discovered that the size of my testicles as well as the amount of ejaculation have reduced. I’m depressed. Please recommend some medication.

How many times a day do you examine your testicles? Testicles do not shrink. I suggest you stop looking downwards and pay more attention to your future. Your testicles and penis are capable of looking after themselves.

I am a 19-year-old boy. I have a girlfriend of the same age. Her problem is that she always gets her period a few days late. We haven’t had sex yet and plan to do it only after we get married. But a month ago, I inserted my finger in her vagina. She didn’t find it painful. We didn’t have sex, but now her periods have been delayed by many more days than usual. I am sure she’s not pregnant. But what could be the probable reasons for this delay? Is there any solution for making them regular?

Only a gynaecologist can find the cause of the delay after an examination. She should visit one as soon as possible. And you’re right, she is not pregnant.

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