I am had a great sex life till about 39 and my wife is 35. We eight weeks ago. During intercourse I have started to a feel a numbness in my penis. I lose my erection as soon as I get one. It has started to affect me mentally. All my medical reports on blood sugar, blood pressure etc are normal. My wife has been understanding, however, I am sure it is affecting us. What is wrong with me?

Nothing wrong with you it is often seen that a person goes of sex for a few days and then returns back to normal. The fact you are getting erections indicates there is nothing physically wrong with you. Take a few days of work and go for a restful holiday. Start light exercises.

Still avirgin am a 21-year .Iamverynerv -old boy and - ous and unhappy as I am unable to get an erection when I see a girl or watch erotic scenes. I have been forcing an erection for over a year now. I want a natural erection. Please help me

Buy Lubic gel and use it on the finger or in the vagina. If the pain is still present, see a gynaecologst.

I am 21 years old. I have two questions. Can I masturbate while wearing a condom? How can I control my excitement when I seegirls?

I think your penis is reacting very sensibly. It does not find any use to get erect specially when you are watchinge erotica. Stop feeling sad, depressed and things will get back to normal. Masturbate only when you are sexualy aroused. You can help erection with your hand if necessary.

I am am a 37 eight -year -10 -old kgs male over and - weight. I joined a gym and managed to lose two kgs.Butof late weird things have been happening to me. After my exercise (especially cardio) my nipples get very sore and I can't even bear to stand under a cold shower. Earlier wife would lick my nipples and that would turn me on,but now it does not. The other day after a cardio session I even noticed a strange discharge which I believe was not sweat. I could make out a colour difference on my white inner wear around the chestarea. What could possibly be wrong?

Your physical ailment does not have anything to do with your nipples. The problem may not have anything to do with exercises. Please see your doctor to investigate the cause of the secretion.

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