I am an 18-year-old girl.My boyfriend and I frequently have oral sex. He ruptured my hymen by fingering me and now we are planning to have sex. But I am worried that after sex my vagina might permanently increase in size and my future husband would know I am not a virgin. What should I do? Please help. 

Carefully think about your future before you leap. What you say is a possibility which can soil your married life.

I am a 20-year-old boy. My friend and I had sex many times. I also ejaculate inside him. I want to know if this is safe for us. What sort of lubricant should we use?

Without a condom, it has been found to risky to catch a serious infection. Try Lubic gel.

I was in a relationship a year ago and I lost my virginity to my former boyfriend. We had sex six times. I am very happy with my current boyfriend. Both our parents know about our relationship, but now he is saying that he wants to break up with me, as he is unable to forget my past. He said he tried a lot but can’t forget the fact that I had already slept with another man. I have been in a relationship with him for nine months and we
also had sex. What should I do? I am worried.
No use running after this immature man. He will dump you for sure, so walk away with your dignity

I am an 18-year-old girl. I started getting periods when I was 11. After that, it’s been irregular. I get my period only after two to three months. I masturbate often, is this the reason for the delay. I hope I am not suffering from any disorder. Will I ever be a complete woman?

You are already a complete woman. Just ask your parents to take you to an endocrinologist who will set your periods right.

My cousin is 19. She attained puberty when she turned 14. However, her periods are irregular and she gets them once every three months. Will this adversely affect her sex life or ability to conceive in the future?

Obviously she has a gynaecological problem which needs to be investigated and treated. Once that is corrected, she should be able to conceive.

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