I am a 31-year-old unmarried man. When I was 25, I had sex with my girlfriend two or three times and I was able to satisfy her. After we broke up, I was not dating anyone for a while. But recently, I tried having sex with my girlfriend and failed to penetrate because I lost my erection. I masturbate once in three days. Please suggest some remedy.

Since you are able to masturbate with an erection, your problem must be nervousness. Take a 45-day course of Ignitor (Zydus Nutriva) — twice a day.

I got married in February. My husband is 30 and I’m 25. Recently, after we had sex, I noticed a yellowish discharge on our bed — like chewed jelly, clear and it smelled like sperm. I don’t know if it was my discharge or my husband’s, and we are worried that it might pose a problem. My husband wants me to get pregnant soon as he loves children a lot. Please help.

It must have been a mixture of your lubricating fluid and part of his sperms. No need to get anxious. Please see a gynaecologist for a general checkup and to clear your doubts. I suggest that both of you wait for at least six months before starting a family.

 I am 27 years old and my wife is 23. She is five weeks’ pregnant. I had used the climax spray a few times before indulging in intercourse. Will this spray affect the baby’s health?

No it won’t but please confirm if all is well and if you can still have intercourse. It’s best to wait for 12 weeks (you can indulge in foreplay) till the foetus is well settled.

I’m a 26-year-old married man, soon to be a father. Three to four days back, I noticed that the size of one of my testicles has increased. Could you help me out?

I cannot opine unless I examine it. Please visit your family doctor

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