I am a 25-year-old man. I have been masturbating for the last six years. I feel the size of my penis has become smaller, and the foreskin looser. I also have a strong gut feeling that that my partner is not happy with me, sexually. Our intercourse lasts for only five minutes. Please help me.

Look into the mirror and you will realise your penis is bigger than you think. Push back your pubic fat and you will discover more to it. If you are having intercourse for five minutes then you come within the world average of two to seven minutes.

I am a 28-year-old married man and my wife is 22. We have been married for a year and a half now. But we do not have sex as much as I expect us to, just some two-three times a month. Whenever I approach my wife, she makes excuses. I try to  have a discussion but she does not want to speak about the issue. Also, I like having oral sex but wife does not support me on this either. Previously we had a better sex life. We both love each other. Please help us resolve this issue.

Talk to her or visit a couples’ counsellor to find out why she has changed. Carefully check whether it is something you are doing that is putting her off, for example halitosis, premature ejaculation, or having sex without caring for your wife’s feelings.

I am a 25-year-old girl. I recently got married and my husband and I have got addicted to sex ever since and end up having sex for almost 12 hours a day. It’s affecting our career and our other relationships. Please help.

Be patient. Your body will send you a signal by lowering your libido when it has had enough. You can also shoo your husband away if you don’t want it.

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