I am a 28-year-old married man. I am on medication for typhoid for the last seven days and have not had sex during this time. The area underneath my foreskin has been itching for the last three days and sometimes there’s also a white substance. I wash it twice a day but it’s not going. Could you please help?

Your medication may have caused it. Ask your doctor. The white substance may be natural smegma- a wax-like discharge found under the foreskin.

I went to a massage parlour recently and the woman who massaged me also gave me a handjob with her oily hands. I ejaculated within a minute. I was wearing shorts given by her and she told me that she would wash it. I had a steam bath and hot shower later. I want to know if this could cause AIDS. I am tensed. It’s the first time I’ve indulge in such mischief and I have decided not to repeat such an act ever.

Glad with your decision. On this occasion, you need not have to worry.

I am a 24-year-old guy. I have had sex with girls some four to five times till date. Although I am straight, I love cross-dressing and I’ve been doing it for the last four years. Lately I have developed a bi-curiosity. I watch many gay porn clips where gay men dressed like women have sex with other men. I fantasise myself wearing women’s clothes and having anal as well as oral sex with a man. I have also contacted a 35-yearold man and he is interested in having sex with me. I have asked him to treat me like a woman. But I am still contemplating whether I should go for it or not. Every time I a see porn movie, I feel the girl gets more pleasure than the boy and she enjoys more. I don’t think it’s a case of Gender Identity Disorder since I am equally attracted to girls but I am unable to control my fantasies and desires. Please guide me.

There’s a huge gap between fantasy, desire and action. It's up to you to make up your mind and then take precautions. For example, have oral sex only when he has a condom on.

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