I am a 23-year-old virgin and have never masturbated. I feel my penis is small and have lost all my confidence. I have nightfalls once a week. Also, I have been smoking for the last three years. Of late I don’t even get the urge. Sometimes I feel I have begun looking at life in a matured fashion or am not fit for a sex life. Please advise before I go into depression.

Start masturbating three times a week. Think of things to arouse yourself. If depressed, do see a psychiatrist.

When I pull down my foreskin, small spots appear below my ring. I am worried.

Why hesitate when your doctor can treat it easily if it is not normal?

I am a 24-year-old virgin. For the last two years, a foul smell has been emanating from my genital area, even though I wash it. I wear tight underwear for atleast 15 hours a day. Is that the reason? Also, a muddy kind of dust comes from my testicle after scratching. I masturbate once in a week.

Clean your genital area twice a day with soap and water. Dry it thoroughly and dust with Nycil powder. wear clean loose underwear and change it daily. Wear no underwear at night. No harm if you masturbate

I am a 26-year-old man. Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend, I ejaculate within a minute. Please help me.

Premature ejaculation occurs partly because you have learnt to reach an orgasm rapidly. Visit a sexpert. 

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