Ask the sexpert, Saturday, November 14, 2009, Lifestyle - Ask the Sexpert

Posted On Saturday, November 14, 2009 at 02:22:01 AM

I am a 22-year-old male. I have had a circumcision. So my penis does not have a foreskin. Whenever I try to masturbate, I don’t get any result. However, I usually find nightfall. What is the problem? Should I consult any doctor? Please suggest.
Try prolonged masturbation with strong stroking.
I am a 23-year-old married man. How many times can we have physical sexual intercourse in a month?
The number of times both of you want to. On an average, four times a week.
I am addicted to masturbating. How do I stop the excessive habit?
By putting your hand to more useful and fruitful things in life. Grow up and use your will power. I had unprotected sex on the 10th day (counting the first day of my period) and took an i-Pill after 10 hours. I had vaginal bleeding six days after that, and it lasted for four days.
Should I consider this bleeding as normal periods or should I wait for my periods next month? Did the bleeding occur because of i-Pill?
Your confusion is typical of those taking the pill indiscriminately. You are not pregnant, if you had no other exposure after the last menses. The EC pill should be taken in cases of the condom tearing or unplanned intercourse.
I want to know how a girl masturbates. How long does the orgasm last? I normally play with my urethra and get an orgasm. Are there any other ways? Is this a good habit? I feel good afterwards. Please advise.
Girls masturbate as you are doing. What you are stimulating to reach an orgasm is the clitoris, the equivalent of the male penis. It is a pea-shaped body situated at the upper part of the vagina between the inner lips. Who am I to deprive you of pleasure — carry on. I suggest you do not insert your finger or a foreign object in your vagina as it will rupture the hymen.
I am a 22-year-old man. I have been getting severe headaches on the days I masturbate. They often last for 3 to 4 hours. Sometimes they are also followed by a hissing sound in my head and I feel as if there is an intermittent flow of blood inside my head. I am really worried. What can be the solution?
Headaches have been reported after masturbation, but in rare cases. There is no cause for concern. See a neurophysician.
I am a 23-year-old man. I have been masturbating for long and suffer from premature ejaculation. Will it affect my sex life in future?
It will not affect your future. Premature ejaculation is a learnt habit. It can be modified with diligent practice. It is best to consult a sexologist.