1. I am a 30-year-old married man. I’ve seen sticky things coming out of my penis after urination. After sex, I experience inflammation around my penis. Sometimes my semen is yellow. Also, I have no real desire to have sex and I feel week all the time. Please help.
   Get your urine examined. Try a six-week course of Bangshill (Alarsin) tablets; twice a day with milk, on an empty stomach. See a doctor to check for symptoms of depression.
   
2. I got married four months ago. Is it safe to have sex when my wife has her period? Also, my wife complains of her increasing breast size. We have not even had a baby, yet her breasts sag.
   a) It is quite safe to have sex when the woman is menstruating (b) Shoulder exercises will help create a better posture. A push-up bra may also help.
   
3. I am a young man. 1) How many times can I masturbate in a day? 2) When I see my girlfriend I feel sperms exiting within seconds. How do I retain them longer? 3) Men in porn movies have sex for more than 40 minutes. How do I reach that level?
   1) Masturbate only when sexually excited, don't make it a habit. 2) That is not sperm but a natural lubricating fluid 3) They are abnormal people; it would be boring to be at it that long.
   
4. I am an 18-year-old woman. Since two-three months I have noticed a lump in my right breast. Its size has also increased considerably since. My doctor says this is normal at my age. However, I do know that breast cancer can occur at my age too. I have had an abortion. Could the lump be a result of that?
   A breast lump can occur after an abortion. You are right to be concerned. See a gynaecologist for a detailed examination.

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