• I am 21 years old. My penis is very curved towards the left. Because of this, I doubt I will ever be able to satisfy my partner. I am yet to experience sex. Please help.
  If the curvature is more than 30 degrees from the midline, you need to see a urologist or andrologist. If not by a little positioning of your body, you can do intercourse.
  
• I am 19 years old and experience the problem of night fall. To stop this, I had sex three-four times with my girlfriend, but still it is creating problems. I also want to enhance my sex power. Please give me a solution.
  Night emmission is a natural event and not to be worried about. Sex power comes from within you.
  
• I am a 39-year-old, married male and my wife is a 32. We have been married for the last 10 years. We have one son. For the last six years or so, we have had sex probably once in a year and though I try to initiate sex on a daily basis, she does not respond and gives me some excuse. The last time we tried to initiate sex was in May 2009. She is also unwilling to take any form of medication or see a doctor. I  have tried all methods and extensive foreplay. However, my wife refuses to budge. There is no other tension between us and I have taken my wife frequently on holidays. 
  Find out the true reason — is it that you are not using a contraceptive or finishing in haste before you arouse her and give her an orgasm? Why not just do good foreplay and then see the response?
  
• What is herpes? Is it an STD? What are its symptoms? How dangerous is it? Is it curable? What are the other sources of transmission? By the touch one's skin against another, is it infected? Are public toilets are the mediators? What are medicines for it?
  Herpes is caused by a group of viruses. The symptoms are inflammation of the skin and mucous membrane with the formation of blisters. When the genitals of a person transfer to another it is called genital herpes. This is a sexually transmitted disease.
  
  Public toilets are not usually the transmitters. There is no cure as yet although there are medicines which suppress it. For treatment, leave it to the doctor.

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