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I am 29 years old and my husband is 30. We have been married for two and a half years. However, we haven’t been successful with sex yet. Whenever he tries to penetrate me, I find it painful. We tried finger penetration, after 20 minutes of ....
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Ask the Sexpert - Saturday, May, 18, 2013

I am a 26-year-old man. I experience a slight pain in my left testicle when I am sitting, walking, or in the midst of any activity. It lasts for a short while and then disappears. Is there a problem?....

Ask the Sexpert - Thursday, May, 16, 2013

I am 58 years old. I have been suffering from blood pressure and minor heart problem since 1986. I take Tenruc-50 for my BP. For the past seven years, I have been suffering from erectile dysfunction. I ....

Ask the Sexpert - Wednesday, May, 15, 2013

I am a 32-year-old man. I have been masturbating since I was a teenager. I have noticed that my testicles hang loose at all times, except in the morning. My libido has also gone down over the years. Is this because of the loose testicles?
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Ask the Sexpert - Tuesday, May, 14, 2013

I am a 24-year-old man. Though I have never had sex, I masturbate regularly. I also don’t suffer from any health problem. However, for the last six months, I have been noticing granules around the ring of my penis. How do I get rid of them? ....

Ask the Sexpert - Sunday, May, 12, 2013

I got married recently. My wife’s vaginal opening is so narrow that I can barely insert two fingers. I am unable to penetrate her, which is worrying me.
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Ask the Sexpert - Saturday, May, 11, 2013

I am a 26-year-old man and like watching gay porn. I feel like getting physical with smart looking men. But I don’t want to be homosexual. If given a choice for sex between a man or women, I’d choose the latter. Then, ....

Ask the Sexpert - Friday, May, 10, 2013

I am a 45-year-old man and have a well-built, healthy body. I am 5’10” and my penis measures seven inches. I have been married for 23 years. My wife and I enjoy good sex. I travel nearly 60 km every day by bus. Six months ago, while I was in the bus, a co-passenger started stroking my penis....

Ask the Sexpert - Thursday, May, 09, 2013

I am a 58-year-old married man. Six months ago my prostate gland was surgically removed due to urological problems. Since then I have not been able to ejaculate. I have been suffering from Erectile Dysfunction (ED) for the last one month. Could this be a consequence of prostate removal? The only medicine I take ....

Ask the Sexpert - Wednesday, May, 08, 2013

I am a 37-year-old widow. I am not interested in marrying again. I don’t have a boyfriend and I pleasure myself three times a week. But I am not totally satisfied. One of my friends suggested that I should buy a sex toy. Is it the right thing to do?
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Ask the Sexpert - Tuesday, May, 07, 2013

I am a 33-year-old married man. Recently, an African- American woman moved into a neighbouring flat. I helped her settle in and even arranged a cook for her. Over time, we got intimate and had sex when my ....

Ask the Sexpert - Sunday, May, 05, 2013

I am a 22-year-old virgin. My problem is that the day after I masturbate, I feel morose. I am unable to do my daily tasks, which demand a lot of attention. Could I be suffering from sexual exhaustion? Please help. Certainly not. Find something else to blame, or spring back into action. ....

Ask the Sexpert - Saturday, May, 04, 2013

I am a 48-year-old man. Of late, I don’t get an erection in the morning but I enjoy having sex with my wife. Is it necessary to get an erection every morning? - The erections you see in the morning are the body’s natural mechanism to ensure that the penis gets adequate blood supply. Even in deep sleep,....

Ask the Sexpert - Friday, May, 03, 2013

I have heard that mint reduces sperm count and I chew a lot of mint. Is it true? - Where did you get this information? The best is you set an example and reduce the intake to a minimum.....

Ask the Sexpert - Wednesday, May, 01, 2013

I am 27 years old and have a fair complexion. I am a bit on the heavier side but not exactly fat. When I was 21, I visited my native place with my family, and accidentally spotted bathers in the nude while I was changing to take a dip in the river. Since then, I like to get naked in public. In fact, when I am....

Ask the Sexpert - Tuesday, April, 30, 2013

I am 18 years old and my maid is 30. When she wipes the floor, I can see her breasts, which gets me excited. In fact, the other day, I forced her into sex. Now she is forcing me to have anal sex with her, else she will tell my mother about us. What should I do? ....

Ask the Sexpert - Monday, April, 29, 2013

I am 26 years old. I do not want to pull my foreskin back as it hurts. Will I face any problems during sex? Is there anything that I can apply before sex? It can hurt and ruin your pleasure. See your doctor for further advice.....

Ask the Sexpert - Sunday, April, 28, 2013

I’m a 27-year-old married man. My job requires me to work in front of the computer the whole day. During foreplay, I get a good erection, but while having sex, I lose it. Earlier, I was active in sports, but not so much now. Please advise me on this matter. Do I need to visit a sexologist? I am ....

Ask the Sexpert - Saturday, April, 27, 2013

What are the long-term temporary contraceptive measures? For men, none and for women, the oral pill or the intrauterine device (Cu-T).
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