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Bachi Kakaria

After seven years of marriage, I find myself going through a divorce. My husband and in-laws were hand-in-glove in kicking me out of my house. The only thing they failed at is in convincing my seven-year-old son to remain with his father.
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I am a 21-year-old beautiful, smart and intelligent woman from a good family. I have been in a relationship with a very loving man for the past six years (four of which have been long distance). ....

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A few months ago, I purchased a Xerox machine. The dealer sold me a very old machine for Rs 30,000 (which is a lot for me), and like a fool, I bought it. However, a week later, it started giving problems.....

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Dear Bachi, I had an arranged marriage six months ago. My husband works in the IT industry. My in-laws, who are both doctors, call me ‘mentally unstable’. They say that this is why I couldn’t have intercourse with my husband on our wedding night. Though we got intimate 45 days later, my husband too is ....

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Dear Bachi, I am a 21-year-old BSc IT student. I will be appearing for my final exams soon. I am depressed about my career. My parents and younger sister feel that I can’t achieve anything. They think my sister is a brilliant student and I am a good-for-nothing. They keep discouraging me because....

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I am in Std XI. I never had any friends till I moved to a new school a year ago. My new friends are amazing, but I am a quiet person so I still feel left out. I have always been lonely in school and my classmates often ignored and avoided me. Now that I have friends, I no longer sit....

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This may sound immature, but the root of my trouble is my maternal grandmother. She has been living with us since my father passed away. But her helping hand is sometimes too much to handle. She interferes in every decision I take. She claims she is doing all this out of concern for my....

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Dear Bachi, I am a 29-year-old unmarried man deeply in love with a 42-year-old unmarried woman for the past four months. We met almost a year ago during a common assignment we were working on for our respective companies. We live in neighbouring areas and started meeting often. Within a....

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I am a science student studying in standard XII. My biggest mistake was to continue with science after class 10 and not pursue humanities. I chose it because I got 90 per cent in the board examination and wanted to be with my friends.
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I am a 29-year-old man, leading a well-settled professional life and I earn well. After my break-up with my girlfriend, I don’t enjoy or cherish happy moments and have become less social. I am tired of the socalled rules and regulations set by my mother. I don’t harbour any illfeelings towards her, but one of....

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Dear Bachi, Recently, I married a man who I love very much. For several years, he was involved with a divorced woman who has a 10-year-old son. Their involvement was lustful. When he met her he was 23 years old and she 35. They had a hot and steamy affair. As a result, she got pregnant and my hubby....

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I am a 17-year-old girl. My mom runs a salon and the problem is we don’t get along. I love and respect her a lot. She loves me too but now it has become tough for the two of us to be together. She is busy all the time, managing the family and the salon. We understand this and try to help her in....

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I am a 17-year-old girl. My mom runs a salon and the problem is we don’t get along. I love and respect her a lot. She loves me too but now it has become tough for the two of us to be together.
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I am a 31-year-old single man. Three years ago, I fell in love with a Muslim girl. She loves me lot but stays in a different state. I have often asked her to marry me but she says her family will never give permission. Her family also wants her to get her married. My father, on the other hand, is selfish and....

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I am a 20-year-old woman in the final year of BA. It may sound weird but for the past four months I have developed this habit of rubbing my big toes back and forth. I have tried getting rid of the habit but failed. It distracts me from studies. My family and friends are fed up.
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I have been in a relationship with a man for the past eight years. But his behaviour is quite weird. Although he loves me, he doubts my character. While I started working since I was 17 years old, he has never worked his entire life and I spend all my money. He also does not like me talking to ....

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Dear Bachi, I am an 18-year-old man. I have a friend who considers me his best friend. However, I am the one who always starts the conversation. He doesn’t share things or care about me. I have discussed this with him but he simply nods his head and forgets about it. I need a friend who really....

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Dear Bachi, I am a 23-year-old Masters of Social Work (MSW) student in Pune. My girlfriend is a 28-year-old divorcee. Her right leg is infected with polio. For these reasons, our parents are against our relationship. I belong to a middle-class family and she comes from a not-so well to do ....

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Dear Bachi, I am a 15-year-old boy studying in class 10. My prelims are about to begin. I feel I am no longer able to carry the burden of studies on my shoulder. I tend to give up often. The fact that I am not done with my syllabus, has given me more reason to give up. Sometimes, when I sit down to study, I am....